Gender Identity

Gender identity issues, sometimes called gender dysphoria or gender conflict, occur when an individual feels an inconsistency between their physical gender and the gender they truly feel or identify with. This most commonly exhibits itself as a physical discomfort with the gender one was assigned at birth, including the feeling of being in the wrong body. Children with gender dysphoria may express disgust of their own genitals or a certainty that they will grow up to be the opposite sex. Some individuals with gender identity issues treat this feeling by physically modifying their bodies to better match their gender identity. Gender dysphoria comes with it an increased risk for depression, anxiety, self-esteem issues, and bullying. If you are experiencing gender identity issues, reach out to one of TherapyDen’s qualified professionals today.

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Beginning to explore your gender identity can be a challenging and frightening prospect. I am passionate about working with members of the trans/non-binary community and continue my education regarding these issues through continuing education classes, reading scholarly documents, and connections with others within the community. Our work together can and will address many issues, however I will never assume that the issues that brought you to therapy are only rooted in your gender identity.

— Chris Paton, Psychotherapist in Seattle, WA

The gender binary excludes so many of us and can leave us feeling confused, alone, and like we're not enough. We'll explore your gender journey together in an accepting and nonjudgmental space, and honor and celebrate your most authentic expression of yourself.

— Heather Buchheim, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oakland, CA
 

I have experience helping clients to navigate their gender identity, with a focus on Non-binary and Gender Non-conforming identities.

— Stephen Kendall, Licensed Professional Counselor in New York, NY

While working at the San Diego LGBT Center, exploring gender identity was a primary focus of therapy for many or, at least, something that came up regularly in sessions. I have worked with people in transition, people who were certain of their gender identity, and people who were trying to "figure it out." I am comfortable with - and welcome - curiosity, questioning, and ambiguity. My academic studies have also focused heavily on gender and it's relation to other factors.

— Dr. Holly Altson, Psychologist in Bellingham, WA
 

In my experience as a nonbinary and transgender therapist, I’ve learned that gender issues impact us all. Addressing these issues is a collaborative effort, not a competitive one. Whether your own process with gender centers around identity exploration, presentation and being perceived, gender roles and expectations, or support in being your authentic self – these are things we struggle with in all genders in our own ways.

— Renya NeoNorton, Marriage & Family Therapist

During graduate school I interned at TransActive Gender Center, providing mental health services for transgender/gender non-binary youth, adolescents, and their families. I continue to provide affirmative care for the community and their families.

— Alexa Adams, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Portland, OR
 

I have extensive research and training in understanding the unique needs of trans, non-binary, gender nonconforming, and genderqueer populations, as well as the LGBTQQIA community. I also enjoy helping cigender individuals explore and challenge rigid cultural expectations about gender roles. I welcome parents and family members who want to learn more and be more supportive of their queer and trans loved ones.

— Catherine Bitney, Clinical Psychologist in Littleton, CO

I have attended hundreds of hours of training relating to gender identity and transgender experience. I am a member of TPATH, WPATH, and USPATH, as well as an active supporter of the informed consent model of care. I am part of a monthly consultation group for gender specialists. I have spoken at both the local and national levels about gender identity.

— Abbie Aldridge, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in ,
 

Sometimes you might need support in exploring your identity, navigating dysphoria, coming out, or pursuing transition. But sometimes you don't. So many trans clients tell me they might need to talk gender at some point, but right now they just need a skilled therapist to address trauma, anxiety, or depression and they don't want to have to explain or defend their identity. Gender-affirming therapy means that we operate from a place of compassion, curiosity, and celebration of who you are.

— Toby Barron, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Burbank, CA

At any given time in the four years I have been practicing, about two-thirds of my clients are people who do not identify as cisgender. I have participated in conferences and professional symposia related to this population, including Gender Spectrum and Translife, and regularly communicate and collaborate with other professionals who work with transgender, nonbinary, and intersex people.

— Cole Rennix, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Redding, CA
 

Exploring your gender identity and expression can be a complex process. Forming excellent supportive relationships with family, friends, and partners is essential. I specialize in helping you have those hard conversations to better those relationships to get the support you need.

— Katherine Traxler-LaFrance, Marriage & Family Therapist in Humble, TX

If you feel you don't fit into society's cisgender model I offer individual and group therapy to help you process your gender identity. You can meet with me individually or explore and fully express your gender identity and connect with others in a safe and supportive environment in group. The group is tailored to the needs of its members with a strong relational-cultural focus. Small 6-8 client group. Call or text 407-676-4150 for more information and to schedule a brief screening call.

— Krissy Treviranus, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Winter Park, FL
 

I have worked with clients from exploring gender identity, exploring gender expressions, and navigating the world when they don't recognize you for who you are.

— Tricia Osterberger, Counselor in Weaverville, NC

Navigating the complexities of gender identity and sexual orientation can be a profound journey. I provide a safe, affirming space where you can explore your authentic self. I follow World Professional Association for Transgender Health 8 standards of care and can provide gender affirming letters for HRT, surgery, etc. I am passionate about trans rights and have many people in my life who are trans. You are safe with me.

— Caley Johnson, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Bellingham, WA
 

In addition receiving training through the Transgender Training Institute, I hold a certificate in Sex Therapy & Sexuality Education from the UM Sexual Health Certificate Program (SHCP). I am also a member of the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT).

— Kelsey Lamm Rottmuller, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor

I don't assume that my lived experience makes me an expert on trans and gender issues. That's why I have pursued ongoing supervision and consultation from other respected trans-identified therapists, and attended gender wellness conferences and other trainings since before I began to work with gender diverse clients. Whether you (or your child) are starting to question your identity, need surgery letters, or are somewhere in between, I'm here to support you at the pace that feels right to you.

— Adrien Leacy, Clinical Social Worker in , MD
 

As a Gender Therapist, I have 20+ yrs of experience working with youth & adults who are questioning, identify as trans, non binary, intersex, or re-transitioning. Not everyone who sees me wants to make gender changes, some people just want to see a gender-affirming therapist about other issues. I do Evals/letters for Doctors. Partners & family also welcome. Consults for therapists in groups and individually on gender-focused clinical work. WPATH Certified Member/WPATH Mentor.

— Lisette Lahana, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in St Petersburg, FL

I am an intersex person, assigned as male at birth. Although I identify as female within the gender binary, tomboy best describes my gender identity. I don't pass, which means that ever encounter with every new person I interact with is a coming out experience. I was the first out trans person hired in every job I've held since transitioning. In one form or another, I have been an activist in the trans community for more than a decade.

— Erika Laurentz, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Olympia, WA
 

I am a member of the transgender community and I write letters for gender affirming medical interventions as appropriate. I am a member of the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH). Whether you are gender questioning, have recently come out, or have been out as trans for years, I hope to be a therapist that helps deepen your authentic connection to your inner identity. We also will explore and repair the harms, if any, of cissupremecy and transphobia in your life.

— Jasper Mather, Marriage & Family Therapist in San Francisco, CA