NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM)

NeuroAffective Relational Model, also known as NARM, is a therapeutic approach that follows a specific model (based on both traditional psychotherapy and somatic approaches) for trauma. NARM does this by working with the attachment patterns that cause life-long psychobiological symptoms and interpersonal difficulties. These early, unconscious patterns of disconnection can have an impact on our identity, emotions, physiology, behavior and relationships. NARM is a non-regressive model of therapy that emphasizes helping clients establish connection to the parts of self that are organized, coherent and functional. It helps bring into awareness and organization the parts of self that are disorganized and dysfunctional without making the regressed, dysfunctional elements the primary theme of the therapy. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one  of TherapyDen’s NARM specialists today. 

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I am currently enrolled in a year long level 2 training. In general, I see the world through a lense of CPTSD. Not to diangose folks but rather empower.

— Traci Ruble, Marriage & Family Therapist in , CA

My work is informed by the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM), a modality created to address the impacts of complex and developmental trauma from a non-pathologizing framework. I use NARM to support client's connection to their own agency. Fun fact: the bulk of my personal work has been informed by the NARM model.

— Tori Essex, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor Associate in Asheville, NC
 

I use the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM) in therapy to help clients explore their experiences of disconnection and develop a deeper sense of connection. By identifying past protective strategies that once served a purpose but now hinder growth, I support clients in creating new, healthier coping mechanisms. My goal is to foster self-awareness, resilience, and emotional well-being, empowering individuals to lead more fulfilling, connected lives.

— Briana Benavides, Licensed Master of Social Work in Leander, TX

I am Neuro-Affective Relational Model (NARM®) Level 2 and Masters level therapist. I have trained extensively at the NARM institute and have studied directly with Dr. Laurence Heller, the founder of the NARM Institute and the author of "Healing Developmental Trauma: How Early Trauma Affects Self-Regulation, Self-Image, and the Capacity for Relationship ".

— Irina Farber, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Irvine, CA
 

NARM helps you see how your early coping strategies—those ways you learned to survive tough situations—might be keeping you stuck today. Instead of just acknowledging how hard it feels, we focus on your strengths and build your sense of control. You’ll learn practical ways to face challenges with more confidence and choice, so you can move forward in your life. NARM believes that instead of changing behaviors - we seek to meet underlying needs, and then behaviors change.

— Dylan Spradlin, Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Missoula, MT
 

In 2020, I completed NARM Therapist training and in the summer of 2021 received my NARM Master Therapist certificate. I was the host of the NARM Training Institute podcast Transforming Trauma for the first two years.

— Sarah Buino, Social Worker in Chicago, IL

I have completed level 1&2 of the NARM training. NARM specializes in working with developmental, relational, complex PTSD, intergenerational, cultural, and attachment trauma. It is a top down and bottom up approach. I have over 300 hours of training completed in this modality.

— Jessie Allee-Walsh, Licensed Professional Counselor Candidate in Boulder, CO
 

We all have wounds from childhood that impacted how we related to our environment. Those adaptations were appropriate and life-saving as children. As adults, they may be contributing to stress and unease in our current relationships. Connection is our deepest desire and greatest fear. NARM is proven to be one of the most effective treatments for complex and developmental trauma because it helps create psychobiological shifts in how we relate to ourselves, each other, and the world.

— Diane Davis, Counselor in St. Louis, MO

NARM is a cutting-edge model for addressing attachment, relational and developmental trauma, by working with the attachment patterns that cause life-long psychobiological symptoms and interpersonal difficulties. These early, unconscious patterns of disconnection deeply affect our identity, emotions, physiology, behavior and relationships. Learning how to work simultaneously with these diverse elements is a radical shift that has profound clinical implications for healing complex trauma.

— Carrie Farrell, Professional Counselor Associate
 

Induced After Death Communication, developed by Dr. Botkin in 1995 while working at the Chicago Veterans Hospital, reduces the sadness and pain associated with grief using a modified EMDR protocol. Most clients experience a deep and loving connection with a deceased loved one through one or more of their five senses. It is a profoundly healing modality. The above description is from https://www.iadctherapy.com/aboutiadc

— Nicolette Bautista, Psychologist in Folsom, CA

I use NARM, character styles, and bioenergetics to address unresolved trauma, especially from developmental or relational wounds. NARM focuses on building connection to self and others, allowing clients to release survival patterns that no longer serve them. This model helps clients experience self-compassion, resilience, and freedom by addressing shame, identity, and deep beliefs on a body-based level.

— Clara Mackinlay, Marriage and Family Therapist Associate in Pasadena, CA
 

I have completed substantial training in level 2 of NARM, and I am in the process of completing master level training. In addition, I have also worked closely with my own NARM therapist.

— Ruth Trujillo-Pertew, Licensed Clinical Social Worker

I have been training for NARM and believe in the healing power of it. NARM is a treatment for developmental and complex trauma. The reasons why I love NARM is that is is non-regressive, works in the moment, and does not pathologize. What is developmental and complex trauma? Developmental trauma stems from environmental fails while we were growing up and that our needs were not being met. Complex Trauma is repetitive traumatic events in a context of a relationship.

— Joshua Davis, Licensed Mental Health Counselor in Fort Lauderdale, FL