Collaborative couple therapy is a therapeutic technique that helps couples understand how they communicate when struggling with an issue or argument. The focus of collaborative couple therapy is teaching partners how to turn those fights into intimate conversations, and in turn, strengthen the relationship. In collaborative couple therapy, the therapist will sit in between the couple and speak as if they were one of the partners talking to the other. If one of the partners is 'fighting' by using stinging words, the therapist will attempt to translate those comments into confiding thoughts. If a partner is ‘withdrawing,’ the therapist will guess at what the individual is feeling, and ask if the guesses are correct. A successful outcome of collaborative couple therapy is experiencing intimacy in times of struggle, rather than fighting or withdrawing. Think this approach might be right for you? Reach out to one of TherapyDen’s collaborative couple therapy experts today.
n addition to using the Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy model, we also draw from mindfulness and somatic approaches, bringing awareness to what you are experiencing in the present moment. At times we all struggle to understand what it is we are truly feeling. Sitting with emotions, such as sadness, grief and regret, rather than trying to push it all away can give rise to unexpected and wonderful relief. It is said that what we resist persists, but when we’re able to feel through something, we
— Jennifer French, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Myrtle Beach, SCProblems tend to form through miscommunication. The collaborative approach helps everyone feel heard and understood. As a result, communication begins to improve, and problems begin to dissolve.
— Katherine Traxler-LaFrance, Marriage & Family Therapist in Humble, TXIn addition to some well-honed, validated, finely tuned couple-specific modalities, I bring a heavily collaborative perspective to all of my work. Perhaps even more so when there are partners (or others) who feel adversarial -- my goal is to work within each person's strengths and desired outcomes.
— Tracy Morris, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Lacey, WAMy approach is designed to foster a supportive and cooperative environment where both partners are actively involved in the healing process. Together, we work to understand and address the unique challenges in your relationship, emphasizing open communication, mutual respect, and shared goals. By combining evidence-based methods like Gottman Therapy, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples navigate conflicts, rebuild trust, and strengthen bonds.
— Toya Foster, Licensed Professional CounselorWe as individuals form our unique worldviews by the attachment styles we develop with our parents and by the dynamics of our family relationships, friendships, and romantic partnerships throughout our lives. I work collaboratively in partnership with you, honoring your worldview, to recognize what’s going well in your relationship dynamic, explore where and how you and your relationships can grow, and assisting you in deepening connection with your loved ones.
— Shelly Hogan, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Austin, TXOur couples counselors work with you and your partner to build healthy communication skills, enhance intimacy and identify shared values.
— Julia Simmons, in Greenwich, CTIn addition to using the Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy model, I also draw from mindfulness and somatic approaches, bringing awareness to what you are experiencing in the present moment. At times we all struggle to understand what it is we are truly feeling. Sitting with emotions, such as sadness, grief and regret, rather than trying to push it all away can give rise to unexpected and wonderful relief. It is said that what we resist persists, but when we’re able to feel through something, we
— Jennifer French, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Myrtle Beach, SCI specialize in brief relational couples therapy. I enjoy collaborating with couples to identify their current challenges and help them figure out their own solutions to their problems by utilizing their strengths and resources.
— Dr. Caitlin Lowry, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Lake Mary, FLINTERFAITH MARRIAGE STEP PARENTING
— sara cote, Addictions Counselor in Newhall, CAMuch of the work I do in therapy is getting to know each client, what they are bringing into the therapy space, and what they are wanting, hoping for, or needing from the therapeutic relationship. I seek for therapy to feel real and authentic, and that often involves laughter as well as tears. I am that therapist that will laugh at your jokes (yes I know it's a coping mechanism) because I love to laugh, but will also encourage you to lean into tender emotions every once in a while.
— Anastasia Hanson, Marriage and Family Therapist AssociateWith my client couples, I have used collaboration, meaning speaking with each client to discuss his or her needs and frustrations within the relationship. I believe collaborative therapy is key to establishing couple goals to benefit everyone. In my sessions, couples do not talk over each other, as communication is important in understanding what has or has not happened in the relationship.
— Deborah Vara, Counselor in Warrenton, VAIn working together, I utilize a person-centered, integrative and collaborative approach to therapy, with the understanding that each person is distinctive and individual. My goal is to meet clients where they are and to create a comfortable, safe space for growth, exploration and self-healing.
— Gary Reeves, Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor in Chicago, ILI have found that collaborative couples therapy is the only couples therapy that truly works. Using techniques, such as Gottman, guides the way, but ultimately being able to teach couples to work collaboratively is what gets them the results they want.
— Amie Lowery-Luyties, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Long Beach, CAThrough an active role, I tackle ways of communication between partners and begin to deconstructed the language and meaning behind every interaction. From a simple argument, to better understanding what and why they said what they said.
— Jacqueline House, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist in Katy, TXI use a collaborative approach to couple therapy, focusing on improving communication, fostering mutual understanding, and addressing relational conflicts. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where both partners feel heard and respected, working together to build stronger emotional connections and navigate challenges in their relationship with compassion and shared decision-making.
— Sazia Malek, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner in Los Angeles, CAUtilizing different modalities such as ACT and Gottman
— Suzette Sova-Robertson, Licensed Professional Counselor in SA, TXCollaborative couple therapy is a therapeutic technique that helps couples understand how they communicate when struggling with an issue or argument. The focus of collaborative couple therapy is teaching partners how to turn those fights into intimate conversations, and in turn, strengthen the relationship.
— MELISSA JOHNSTON-ENZOR, Psychotherapist