David Low

As a Divorce Coach and Child Specialist Family Mediator, I help parents going through divorce to communicate, resolve issues and create a healthy co-parenting plan addressing placement and related child adjustment concerns. I help couples make workable child-focused agreements that put children's needs first with the aim of creating a less stressful, healthy, two-home family for children.

Using research-based approach, I help couples gain a fresh focus to: • Improve friendship and the quality of caring for one another. • Reclaim a deep emotional connectedness, closeness and intimacy. • Reduce arguments and better manage conflicts. • Recover from an affair, repair past hurts, re-build trust, and strengthen a sense of commitment. • Build solutions to manage parenting difference.

Although recovering from infidelity poses many hurdles, it does not necessarily mean that a couple’s relationship is doomed. I use the Gottman Affair Recovery Method which is a research-informed three-phase process to help couples heal and recover from infidelity. The three phases in Gottman’s Trust Revival Method are: Atonement, Attunement and Attachment. There is no specific time frame for completing the process.

My approach is based on what research shows to actually works in relationships that are happy and satisfied. I help couples gain a fresh focus to: • Improve friendship and the quality of caring for one another. • Reclaim a deep emotional connectedness, closeness and intimacy. • Reduce arguments and better manage conflicts. • Recover from an affair, repairing past hurts, re-building trust, and strengthen a sense of commitment. • Build solutions to manage parenting difference.

Although recovering from infidelity poses many hurdles, it does not necessarily mean the relationship is doomed. , it is possible for couples to heal, rebuild and move forward. However, it takes work and recommitment. I use the Gottman Affair Recovery Method which is a research-informed three-phase process to help couples heal and recover from infidelity. The three phases in Gottman’s Trust Revival Method are: Atonement, Attunement and Attachment.

I help couples gain clarity and confidence about a direction to either try to restore your marriage to health, move toward divorce, or take time and decide later. I help parents going through divorce to communicate, resolve issues and create a healthy co-parenting plan addressing placement and related child adjustment concerns. I help couples make workable child-focused agreements that put children's needs first with the aim of creating a less stressful, healthy, two-home family for children.

Discernment Counseling does not help you to solve your marital problems but to see if they are solvable. It provides a chance to slow down, take a breath, and look at options.. The aim is to help couples gain clarity and confidence about a direction to either try to restore your marriage to health, move toward divorce, or take time and decide later.

The Gottman Method is an approach to couples therapy that includes a thorough assessment of the couple’s relationship and integrates research-based interventions based on the Sound Relationship House Theory. The goals of Gottman Method Couples Therapy are to disarm conflicting verbal communication; increase intimacy, respect, and affection; remove barriers that create a feeling of stagnancy; and create a heightened sense of empathy and understanding within the context of the relationship.

While most mental health professionals see couples and families, they typically have had little training in couples therapy and family therapy. As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists, I am a mental health professional with extensive specific training in psychotherapy and family systems and am licensed to diagnose and treat mental and emotional disorders within the context of marriage, couples and family systems.