Melanie Bettes

I am not only aware, but knowledgeable of kink. Many therapists are uncomfortable talking about sex, much less kink. Kink isn't something that's shameful, nor is it simply a trauma response. It can be a healthy part of a person's sexual expression.

I am not only aware, but knowledgeable of kink. Many therapists are uncomfortable talking about sex, much less kink. Kink isn't something that's shameful, nor is it simply a trauma response. It can be a healthy part of a person's sexual expression. Are you struggling in some area related to this? Some do, whether it's shame, or you're new figuring out boundaries, or negotiating a dynamic. If you need help in any of these areas, or more, reach out.

I am not only aware, but knowledgeable of kink. Many therapists are uncomfortable talking about sex, much less kink. Kink isn't something that's shameful, nor is it simply a trauma response. It can be a healthy part of a person's sexual expression. Are you struggling in some area related to this? Some do, whether it's shame, or you're new figuring out boundaries, communication or negotiating a dynamic. If you need help in any of these areas, or more, reach out.

This is something that is much more mainstream and open than it used to be and yet many people don't understand the philosophy behind it. I must admit, I struggled with that myself until someone I cared about very much shared with me that their relationship orientation was poly. I then felt the need to educate myself and learn, and discovered that there's a need for support in the poly community. I'm more than happy to discuss and help you navigate!

ADHD. While it's uniquely presented in everyone, there are still commonalities. The challenge is usually to figure out how to work with YOUR presentation, and not apply a universal approach to each person. It's as unique as you are, and I strive to approach your challenges the same way. I myself have ADHD. I love when we find an approach or tips that work for YOU. When working with me, we find solutions that work for YOU!

Relationships can be difficult to navigate and even sometimes, to understand. Understanding your partner and working to give the same amount of grace we'd give to ourselves while working through relationship concerns is a lot to take on without a guide. Emotions get in the way of seeing things clearly. Please allow me to be your sherpa!

Most therapists won't talk about sexual problems. Sure, they'll talk about sexuality, but not sex itself. This is a shame, because it is such a huge part of one's life, and is sometimes very closely connected to one's mental and emotional health in some way.

Without mindfulness, it's difficult to pinpoint what our triggers are. Or more precisely, WHY they are. Mindfulness teaches us to be present int he moment, and to be aware of physical and emotional sensations. To either be more present or to be able to detach and observe them so that we can learn to manage them.

I draw from whatever sources I feel are appropriate to the client. Having had education in many, I seldom adhere rigidly to one approach, but rather find what resonates with you.

Sex therapy is a type of talk therapy designed to help one work through physical or emotional difficulties related to sex. I specialize in kink and the dynamics involved. Maybe you would like help with contract negotiation or understanding your drive. Something else? Let's explore!