John Kane

Conflict is your roadmap to intimacy, learning to do it in a healthy way will set stabilize your communication challenges. If we are going to put the relationship on a solid foundation, we have to plug the holes in the boat so we can start the process of rebuilding or building emotional, psychological, spiritual, and physical intimacy. I come alongside you and help you engage the healthy principles of relationships in your life so your relationship will thrive!

I take you through the biochemistry of sex and explore with you the intersection between, sexuality, relationships, and addiction in your life. Its not for me to tell you how it is, its for me to give you the information and you can help me understand how what you are learning has manifested in your own life. Sexual problems can be resolved. If your sexual interests are getting in the way of your relationships, I am the guy you should call!

Addicts isolate because they are pulling away from relationship. Its easier to go to the unhealthy coping mechanism of choice than to deal with some of the difficult realities of relationship, and yet at the end of our lives, nobody wants to end up alone. I am an addiction specialist. I treat all addictions, even an addiction to fortune tellers. People come to me for many reasons, but they stay because I get results and get results quickly!. Call me to lay the foundation of addiction recovery

I had a guy come to me and said, "My wife treated me like a King but I wasn't feeling in love with her so I cheated on her" because he thought love was a feeling. I take you through the biochemistry of sexuality and help you understand the intersection of sex and attachment, the impact that the loss of the ability to attach can have on sexual experience and fidelity in relationships and help you take that information to help you develop healthy sexual attachment in the present and future.

Anxious, ADDICTED, and depressed people isolate because they are pulling away from relationship, it hurts too much, and in addiction, the momentary pleasure of my addiction of choice suppresses the psychological pain that the addict is responding too. We are addiction specialists and we will hold your hand through the process of addiction recovery. We walk you through a step by step system of addiction recovery that is rooted in evidenced based practices and lived experience. There is hope!

Conflict is your roadmap to intimacy, if you are not having conflict, at least one person in the relationship is not being real and that means they are suppressing their needs, wants, desires in order to please their partner. At some point that powderkeg will blow! As relationship therapists, we come alongside you as a couple and support you in developing the relational intelligence to build and protect your relationship so that it will thrive and stand the test of time!